Tend

For youth pastors & leaders

Stay close to every student — and their family.

Remember what they told you, know who's home, and never lose track of the kid who's been quiet lately.

After youth night, Maya hangs back and mentions her parents are splitting up.

You write one sentence

"Maya said things are hard at home — her parents are separating. Check in with her mom this week."

Tend files it

Under Maya and the Lopez household, so whoever looks up the family next has the context.

Tend suggests

A check-in with Maya's mom, due Friday — keep it yourself or hand it to her small group leader.

Four moments Tend is built for

01

Capture after a conversation

Youth night ends, the room empties, and you jot one sentence on your phone. Tend works out who it's about and where it belongs.

02

Look up a family before you meet

Before coffee with a parent, see every student in the household, the last few notes, and anything you promised to do.

03

Hand a follow-up to a volunteer

Assign the check-in to the small group leader who knows the student best. You'll see when it's done and how it went.

04

See who you haven't connected with

Spot the students nobody has talked to in weeks — the quiet ones who slip out early — before they drift away.

Households, including blended families

Link a student to both homes, step-parents and guardians. Notes and check-ins land with the right adults.

Parents are part of the picture

Track who has consented to direct contact, and reach students through a parent when that's the right path.

Privacy by group

Your youth group's people and notes stay with your youth leaders. Lock a note so only you can see it.

You stay in charge of every message

Tend can suggest the words. You review them and send from your own phone — nothing goes out on its own.

Every student known. Every family remembered.

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